Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Creative People as Friends

I hate relying on creative people for deep friendship. Because they're simply not going to be there when I want them to be.

But then again, when I need them...it's like they are waiting for me, right where we left off.

Funny as ever.
Bringing out the best in me at the worst of times.

Le sigh.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Last Thoughts on the Permanence of the Temporary

 Francois Mauriac said:
No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever...

Saturday, August 9, 2014

Guess Who

Another contradiction:

We put parts of our full selfs into closets, along with our ill-fitting, trendy dresses and decades-old business pants. There is something embarrassing and too loose about our accents, the way we eat when no one's in the room, the way we overreact when our siblings tease us...

It's not the self we're offering to the others we want to bring close.

But when relationships get tense and there is too little freedom in our shared mental space, how easy it is to put on our old strange self, that one we hid from sight all this time.

Friday, August 1, 2014

How Relationships Begin (End)



Romantic relationships are half prudence and half foolishness.

Which comes first is everything.